At least one person will probably be defriended as a result of this.
There is absolutely no excuse for being rude to me (when I gave you absolutely no reason), or for showing such blatant disrespect for my friends. It doesn't matter whether you were speaking truth or not (and imho a lot of it was just bile): you weren't doing it with courtesy, so you can't do it here.
(I haven't yet decided whether to delete previous post and/or its comments.)