November 9th, 2015
|07:48 pm - 10 Books to Read in 2015: A Year of Biblical Womanhood|
I'd been meaning to read Rachel Held Evans' A Year of Biblical Womanhood: How a Liberated Woman Found Herself Sitting on Her Roof, Covering Her Head, and Calling Her Husband 'Master' for a while, but never got around to it. I think this was partly because I didn't want to revisit some of the stricter doctrines I grew up around and partly because I wasn't sure what to expect.
Here's two things this book is not: It is not a series of recommendations on how women can better follow, to the letter, rules set down in Scripture. It is also not—and I mean not at all—a feminist repudiation of the Bible.
I would call it a thoughtful, practiced attempt to come to grips with being both a woman and a Christian; a working out of what that once looked like and what it might look like now; an exploration of what it means to be a woman of valor, a woman of justice, a woman made in God's image; an experiment in understanding what it means to be in healthy relationship to God, to the world and to oneself.
It is a gimmick book. Evans lived for a year according literal principles taken from Jewish and Christian scriptures and traditions. She kept a list of important ones and set aside months to try others, to study concepts and explore perspectives (including corresponding with an Orthodox Jewish woman in Israel, women in the Quiverful movement, and wives from a Christian polygamist group). The book encompasses profound ideas, from preparing to have children, to what part submission has in a marriage, to speaking up for those who are oppressed.
The virtues Evans explored monthly are: gentleness, domesticity, obedience, valor, beauty, modesty, purity, fertility, submission, justice, silence and grace. The ones I was least interested to read about (obedience, modesty, silence) ended up containing the most insights for me, which tells me Evens lived these virtues with as much honesty as she could. She observes her own reactions with humility and humor; there's some lovely laugh-out-loud stuff.
I'll close with a couple of quotes:
This was, for me, Evans' most worthy observation, something that I shall be pondering for a while: “For those who count the Bible as sacred, interpretation is not a matter of whether to pick and choose, but how to pick and choose. We are selective. We all wrestle with how to interpret and apply the Bible to our lives. We all go to the text looking for something, and we all have a tendency to find it. So the question we have to ask ourselves is this: Are we reading with the prejudice of love [which is the prejudice of God] or are we reading with the prejudices of judgment and power, self-interest and greed?”
And this is her most practical piece of advice, from the chapter on silence: “[M]y advice to women is this: If a man ever tries to use the Bible as a weapon against you to keep you from speaking the truth, just throw on a head covering and tell him you're prophesying instead. To those who will not accept us as preachers, we will have to become prophets.”
It's not that tradition or scripture are unimportant. It is that they are more than rules meant to be kept to the letter. To those who believe, they are the voice of God, leading us into loving each other as God loved us.
Wow! I had heard of this book and decided that it came on my list of "to read" stuff right after the one on rewiring your house! But, what you have written makes me see that this woman may have had some very valuable insights. Thank you for bringing it "into the light".
|Date:||November 11th, 2015 03:29 am (UTC)|| |
I have a feeling you are further on the journey than the author was when she wrote this book, but you might find it interesting anyway. :) You're welcome! I'm glad I finally took the time to read it.
|Date:||November 10th, 2015 06:04 am (UTC)|| |
RHE is one of my favorite Christian writers. I highly recommend her other books, "Faith Unraveled" and "Searching for Sunday" as well. She dives into those uncomfortable places and doesn't try to make sense out of them or tell people what to do. She just sits with you in those places and says, "Yeah, I'm right here with you." Love her!
|Date:||November 11th, 2015 03:30 am (UTC)|| |
I've been meaning to read all her books for a while. I think I might try Searching for Sunday next, since her searching appears (from her blog) to have brought her to the Episcopal church, my denomination.
Yes, I like how she stuck with some very uncomfortable ideas. It helped me think them through--some of them, I needed to, at this point in my life.
This sounds interesting; will have to look it up. I love the quote about prophesying. :)
|Date:||November 11th, 2015 03:44 am (UTC)|| |
I hope you enjoy it at least as much as I did.
That quote just slayed me--how to speak with the voice of God but in a context that is very literally biblical. :)